Women are much more interested in a man’s personality and looks than the size of his penis, but men can experience real anxiety even if they are average sized, according to a research review published in the June issue of the urology journal BJU International.
Dr Kevan Wylie from the Porterbrook Clinic and Royal Hallamshire Hospital, Sheffield, UK, reports that while men often have a better body image, genital image and sexual confidence if they have a large penis, women don’t necessarily feel that bigger is better.
He teamed up with Mr Ian Eardley from St James’ Hospital in Leeds to bring together the findings of more than 50 international research projects into penile size and small penis syndrome carried out since 1942.
By drawing together the results of 12 studies that measured the penises of 11,531 men, they discovered that average erect penises ranged from 14-16cms (5.5 to 6.2 inches) in length and 12-13cm (4.7 to 5.1 inches) in girth.
Wylie and Eardley also looked at the bizarre practices used by men worldwide to enhance the size of their penis, including the Topinama of Brazil, who encourage poisonous snakes to bite their penises to enlarge them for six months!
They report that Indian Sadhus men are known to use weights to increase the length of their penis and Dayak men in Borneo pierce the glans of their penis and insert items into the holes to stimulate their partner.
Other key findings of the review include:
* A survey of over 50,000 heterosexual men and women found that 66 per cent of men said their penis was average sized, 22 per cent said large and 12 per cent said small. 85 per cent of women were satisfied with their partner’s penile size, but only 55 per cent of men were satisfied.
* Two studies reported that 90 per cent of women prefer a wide penis to a long one. Other studies pointed out that the issue of male attractiveness was complex, but that penile size was not the most important factor for women.
* Small penis syndrome is much more common in men with normal sized penises than those with a small micropenis with a flaccid length of less than 7cm (2.7 inches).
* One study found that 63 per cent of men complaining of small penises said their anxieties started with childhood comparisons and 37 per cent blamed erotic images viewed in their teenage years. None of the men studied actually had a micropenis.
* Another report based on data collected by Kinsey in the 1940s reported that, on average, homosexual men had larger penises than heterosexual men. The report authors suggest that exposure to male reproductive hormones in the womb may be one explanation.
* Individual research studies have also suggested that penis size is smaller in studies focussing on older men, but Wylie and Eardley found no overall differences when they collated the results of various studies.
* The review also provided little evidence of racial differences, with the exception of one Korean study where the men had smaller than average-sized penises. The authors suggest this area needs further investigation.
* Evidence on the effectiveness of vacuum devices, penile extenders and traction devices was found to be limited, but the authors noted that patients may experience psychological benefits from some of them.
* The review also showed that the results of surgery are poorly documented and significant complications can ensue.
“It is very common for men to worry about the size of their penis and it is important that these concerns aren’t dismissed as this can heighten concerns and anxieties” says Dr Wylie.
“It is helpful to normalise the situation and provide as much accurate information as possible, as many men either lack any information or have been misinformed.
“This extensive review aims to provide clinicians with an overarching summary of the many research projects that have been carried out into penile size and small penis syndrome.”
Clinicians who are presented with a man with small penis syndrome need to consider a number of treatment approaches.
“The initial approach should be a thorough urological, psychosexual, psychological and psychiatric assessment, possibly with more than one clinician involved” say the authors.
“Conservative approaches to therapy, based on education and self-awareness, as well as short-term structured psychotherapies, are often successful.”
They authors are, however, very cautious when it comes to treating a psychological condition like small penis syndrome with gadgets or surgery.
“There is poorly documented evidence to support the use of penile extenders, and while information is starting to emerge on the success of some surgical techniques, this is not backed up by data on patients’ satisfaction with such procedures” stresses Dr Wylie.
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Small Penis Syndrome
December 25, 2007 by RB (not verified), 1 year 45 weeks ago
Comment id: 26586
Man I did a Google search on this and I could not beleive the info and comments I read. All men don't neccesarily wish they were bigger, they just dont like the idea that maybe their spouse/girlfriend was with someone larger. This really played on my head for a long time, even after years of marriage. It is because our minds automatically correlate larger with better (thanks porn, internet comments, TV, etc.). As an athelete, sure I saw some guys with penises down to mid thigh in the locker room. For the most part these guys got lots of girls, but not for why you think. They never kept a girlfriend for long, as the girls were just out to take a test drive then usually dumped them after a week or so. I dated a couple girls after one of these guys dated them. I was intimidated some I will admit, but based on how they acted with me I never worried about it much. Sure there are some size queens out there that "need" a man with a large one. Usually they are compensating for something else, like poor self esteem, desire to be controlled, etc. Forget about these hoes. I am 6.75", maybe 7" if I am really erect. My girth is 5.5' around the shaft, 6.25" at the head. I used to worry about my wife being with someone larger, I wished I was bigger, tried jelging, pumps, etc. I was conviced that she would enjoy it more if I was bigger and just would not tell me the truth. Maybe this is the case, who knows. I use to get down on myself and feel that she was Ok with my penis because she fell in love with me, or that I had a future, where her other boyfriends were losers. Then I sat back and thought about it. My wife orgasms just about every time we have sex (which is just about daily). As it is I hit her cervix regularly unless she is really turned on and it pulls back some, why would I want to be any longer? She could not remember any of the average guys from her past, but she did remember one that had a penis the size of her index finger. This was bad she said, to make matters worse, he went forever she said. LOL She also remembered one guy that she says must has been 9-10". This guy was an ass and it really hurt her. All guys have a desire to fully penetrate (big or small). This is an animal instinct relating to getting a woman pregnant, the deeper you ejaculate and so on, the closer the sperm is to the egg. With this guy if she bit her lip and acted like it did not hurt, he would only do it harder and hold her down. Several times he would get her to cry, and still would not stop pounding away. It was almost like he got off on it. She also says he acted like Gods gift to women and was very controlling. For all guys who are average or smaller...Just as I tell my kids, we get what we get and we dont throw a fit. Make the most of what you have guys, learn some good oral skills (which most endowed guys dont feel they "need" to do from what I heard), be thankful that you can fully penetrate without pain for your girl (being able to do this creates pubic/clitoral friction which can help lead to orgasms for a woman. If you had 9+" usually at least 2" will be out in the cold and you will not be able to grind on most girls. :) Other tips would be to practice delaying your orgasm longer, get in shape to increase stamina, and open up the lines of communication with the girl you are with. Ask her what you can do to make her feel better, make her O, favorite positions, etc. Also if you are having trouble with early ejaculation try EMLA cream (look it up on the net). Put a little on the head about 10 minutes before you start. You will go without cumming until it wears off...for me usually about 1-2 hours so when I know we have a full evening I use it sometimes. My wife loves it when I use it. Hopefully this will help someone. Remember women like a confident man, so be confident that the next time you have sex with her it will be her best ever.
Q from a woman
October 6, 2007 by Anonymous, 2 years 4 weeks ago
Comment id: 25290
Will guys put off sex for the first time with a new gf if they're worried about their size? What can the girl do to make them feel better?
hey
June 16, 2007 by Anonymous (not verified), 2 years 20 weeks ago
Comment id: 23976
5xlook 5.5 inches is average... top researchers find out that average is 5.07 inches and other find it to be 5.1 and the other at the end of the range 5.7 inches... so what are you talking about man? you know how many million guys out there below 4.5 inches? and u are talking about 5.5 been bad... thats the average!
My sizeis about 5.5" in
June 6, 2007 by Mark (not verified), 2 years 22 weeks ago
Comment id: 23878
My penis is about 5.5" in length and about 4 1/4" in circumference. I am obviously an inch or two below average in both categories. What are the chances of me having sex with a women with multiple partners having had sex with a below average guy???? Slim to none as I am definitely in the lower percentile. I was so terified that i was only able to have intercxourse with one woman before I got married due to fear of humiliation and embarassment that I received in the locker room, urinals and the previous expereince??? Why is the psychcological aspect of the whole situation not taken into consideration?
If it's no big deal why has it been in the last 25 years of my relationship with my wife??? I am not bad looking, intelligent, an excellant provider but I have had to put up with only getting sex once every 6 to 8 weeks for the past 18 to 20 years.??? You know why. We were not married for the first 3 years and then I built a couple of houses and then we had children. My wifes sexual expereinces with large endowment men taught her to use me in my skills in other areas and punish me for what I didn't have. I have a small penis that coulds not satisfy her and she only used me as a sugar daddy. Her obvious perception was that a small penis is small maintenance. Why doesn't my situation come up when these topics are discussed?? Because most of these types of marriages end up in diviorce. \it's very emotionally painfull!!!!
Rather than physical the mental confidence is key
May 31, 2007 by primaz, 2 years 23 weeks ago
Comment id: 23816
An older toipic on the lack of therapy on men here on this site at http://www.scienceblog.com/cms/node/3388 had some great info on how little knowledge and emphasis there is on men and the benefits of therapy. Men often do not seek mental help they look at solving problems mechanically. In this case of a penis they look at gizmos, etc. like the pump but more can be gain in your head.
As Dr. June Martin's research on men in therapy and attachment www.junemartintherapy.com under the publication section, shows that more research should be done to improve therapy tailored to men. All the typical psych research is based more on womens views as they make up most of the psych research samples. Having the mental confidence can ensure that whatever god granted you between your legs, that you can fully utilize it to its full size and stamina. I think that is more important the hoping for some magical product to enlarge it. I have heard horror stories of such products and to me if your mentally strong that can likely give you the same results.
How 'bout actually doing something
May 31, 2007 by Anonymous (not verified), 2 years 23 weeks ago
Comment id: 23813
I don't get it. You don't here them trying to tell woman that they need psychological treatment for wanting larger breasts. Why are they always trying to treat men psychologically over their penis size? It's a very natural thing! Who doesn't want to be impressively endowed? Why don't they stop wasting everyone's time and get to work finding a real solution to enlarging them.
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