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Man I did a Google search on this and I could not beleive the info and comments I read. All men don't neccesarily wish they were bigger, they just dont like the idea that maybe their spouse/girlfriend was with someone larger. This really played on my head for a long time, even after years of marriage. It is because our minds automatically correlate larger with better (thanks porn, internet comments, TV, etc.). As an athelete, sure I saw some guys with penises down to mid thigh in the locker room. For the most part these guys got lots of girls, but not for why you think. They never kept a girlfriend for long, as the girls were just out to take a test drive then usually dumped them after a week or so. I dated a couple girls after one of these guys dated them. I was intimidated some I will admit, but based on how they acted with me I never worried about it much. Sure there are some size queens out there that "need" a man with a large one. Usually they are compensating for something else, like poor self esteem, desire to be controlled, etc. Forget about these hoes. I am 6.75", maybe 7" if I am really erect. My girth is 5.5' around the shaft, 6.25" at the head. I used to worry about my wife being with someone larger, I wished I was bigger, tried jelging, pumps, etc. I was conviced that she would enjoy it more if I was bigger and just would not tell me the truth. Maybe this is the case, who knows. I use to get down on myself and feel that she was Ok with my penis because she fell in love with me, or that I had a future, where her other boyfriends were losers. Then I sat back and thought about it. My wife orgasms just about every time we have sex (which is just about daily). As it is I hit her cervix regularly unless she is really turned on and it pulls back some, why would I want to be any longer? She could not remember any of the average guys from her past, but she did remember one that had a penis the size of her index finger. This was bad she said, to make matters worse, he went forever she said. LOL She also remembered one guy that she says must has been 9-10". This guy was an ass and it really hurt her. All guys have a desire to fully penetrate (big or small). This is an animal instinct relating to getting a woman pregnant, the deeper you ejaculate and so on, the closer the sperm is to the egg. With this guy if she bit her lip and acted like it did not hurt, he would only do it harder and hold her down. Several times he would get her to cry, and still would not stop pounding away. It was almost like he got off on it. She also says he acted like Gods gift to women and was very controlling. For all guys who are average or smaller...Just as I tell my kids, we get what we get and we dont throw a fit. Make the most of what you have guys, learn some good oral skills (which most endowed guys dont feel they "need" to do from what I heard), be thankful that you can fully penetrate without pain for your girl (being able to do this creates pubic/clitoral friction which can help lead to orgasms for a woman. If you had 9+" usually at least 2" will be out in the cold and you will not be able to grind on most girls. :) Other tips would be to practice delaying your orgasm longer, get in shape to increase stamina, and open up the lines of communication with the girl you are with. Ask her what you can do to make her feel better, make her O, favorite positions, etc. Also if you are having trouble with early ejaculation try EMLA cream (look it up on the net). Put a little on the head about 10 minutes before you start. You will go without cumming until it wears off...for me usually about 1-2 hours so when I know we have a full evening I use it sometimes. My wife loves it when I use it. Hopefully this will help someone. Remember women like a confident man, so be confident that the next time you have sex with her it will be her best ever.