There's such a thing as sharing what you think is right with a child. No group sex, waiting until after marriage, etc. are morals that you probably WON'T find on the street for these guys to learn. But yes, there IS such a thing as getting too wrapped up in their world and by doing so, putting the wrong pressures on them and making it worse.

Remember though, how will they learn if they don't talk to someone and hear what's logically correct? Not everyone thinks as well as they should. Don't go extremist.