I have the same problem... I think I pretty much tried everything from shaving to rotary epilators to waxing to expesive laser treatments - now i am doing electrolysis it's been a year and taking spironolactone for past 7 months but I think it's only gettign worse...
I really don't understand it... It's ruined my bf and mine sex life and I have fits of major depression every now and then. I am so tired of the upkeep and constantly worryign what people may think so I ave recently just stopped everything (except the electrolysis which i do on my face and nipples) ... i feel like a man =(