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i am extremely lost right now. i have been in a relationship for a little over two years and we have a 5 month old son together now. on new years eve a year ago my husband had an extreme anger outburst and i cant even remember what it was about but it resulted in him assaulting me and ended up tearing a ligiment in my wrist. it was extreme. the next day he ended up apologizing up and down that he doesnt remeber and he's so sorry. things were great for a long time after. the next time he got really angry he knocked our t.v. off of our armour in our bedroom and destroyed it.he kicked a dent in my car and kicked off my rearview mirror. most importantly, this last episode, wich happened a week ago, was the most extreme. itold him that he needed to tell his other son that he isnt allowed to just barge in our bedroom whenever he feels like it and i would rather he didnt go in there at all. he's 6 years old and he doesnt need to be in there. thats an intimate, private place. after i told him that his whole demeanor changed and he flipped out. he was hovering over me yelling. he follwed me in the other room and just kept grabbing me and yelling. ultimatly he charged at me and my reflex kicked in and i punched him. he attacked me. he broke my cell phone in half, punched me and choked me and almost suffocated me. i had my son with me most of the time. this was very scary for me and i thought i might die that night. the police were called and i made him leave and i wouldnt let him back in the rest of the night. ever since he feels great remorse and regret and embarrassment. he knows he has a problem but i dont know what to do. help! i cant live in fear for my life or my son's life although i know he wouold never intentionally hurt either one of us. i dont know what to do! is there help?